En cours de chargement...
Let's talk about love. It's something that's as old as time itself, and you want it, we all want it. That magnetic pull that keeps two people together, stronger than anything else out there. You know, love isn't just about the butterflies or the soft moments - it's a force, something that draws him in and makes him think, "I can't live without her." We all know that feeling. Now, how do you create that for yourself?You've got to be someone he can't resist.
That's key. It's not about looks, though that helps. It's about the energy you bring into the room. The confidence. The way you carry yourself. Men notice these things instantly. He's got to feel like he's drawn to you from the moment he sees you. When you walk into a room, do it like you own it. He will sense it. Now, this part's important. Make sure you're not too available. If you're always around, always texting back in a split second, always showing up every time he wants you, he's going to get too comfortable.
Comfort is good, but not yet. First, you've got to make him chase you a bit. There's something in the human brain - especially the male brain - that loves a good chase. It's thrilling. He needs to feel like he's earned your attention. Don't give it away for free. But at the same time, don't be cold. You've got to play this like a fine balancing act. You can't be aloof. He needs to see that you're interested.
He needs to feel like he's got a shot with you. Give him some signs. Smile, laugh at his jokes - even the bad ones, at least sometimes. Make him feel like you enjoy being around him. But don't overdo it. Keep him guessing just a little.