Righteous Seduction: Redemption for Nerds, Unappreciated Nice Guys, and Captives of the Friend Zone - E-book - ePub

The sexual revolution changed the face of society, including the game of courtship. The dating scene has become very difficult for most men today, especially for those who aren't aware of the new rules. Relying on outmoded advice, pop cultural conventions, and other misinformation will leave you behind. Some examples of what happens when men act on outdated advice, misconceptions, and lies:Myth: Just be yourself.
Result: You never improve. Myth: You're not allowed to start conversations. Result: You never meet anybody. Myth: You can only win her after a long courtship. Result: She ends up with some other dude. Myth: Treat her like a princess. Result: You get treated like a peasant, not a prince. Myth: "I believe in being friends first." Result: "I wish I could find someone exactly like you (who isn't you)." Or: "You'll make such a great catch (for someone else)."Sigmund Freud famously said that he wasn't able to figure out "What does a woman really want?" The seduction community has found some answers: actually, sometimes it's the opposite of what she says she wants! Learn this, among other items:-Myths and facts about seduction, and why men today must learn the real rules of the game-You've heard "men only want one thing"; the secret is that women want it too!-The dating scene follows the laws of economics; how value is assigned, and how market forces fluctuated historically-Not only are you allowed to start conversations, you're expected to do so!-Resolving the conundrum of showing too little interest or too much interest-What feminism really teaches these days and how this affects society-Why average guys are considered "a dime a dozen", and "nerds" get the worst of it-The teachings of ancient philosophers can help you be a better man and improve your love life too-The major insecurities guys have, what to do about them, and why that's not as bad as you think-The character traits that turn women on, and how to develop your personality-How to sharpen your appearance, get in shape, and get your life out of a rut-How to recover from shyness-Why you can't let rejection get to you-The female thought process-How men get stuck in the "Friend Zone", why it's often a scam, and what to do about it-The "Nice Guy" versus "jerk" false dichotomy, and how to be a decent person without being ignored-Screening out neurotic women and some other types you don't want to invite into your life-Avoiding pitfalls of sex that can ruin your life-Why being a sensitive, cuddly teddy bear - like you were told you should be - will get you nowhere-How women test us, how to respond, and why buying that drink gets you nowhere too-Making a good first impression and improving your conversation skills-Answers for flaking and other common aggravations-That great floating abstraction of "creepiness" and how to avoid that impression-Where to meet women-Dating multiple women while keeping drama to a minimum-How to rock the bedroom, how to deal with ED, and why porn will mess up your social life-Carrying a relationship into the long term in harmony-Avoiding common marital problemsThe secrets of the pickup artists are revealed:-Adapting your approach for every situation-Developing unique and creative openers-Putting the best spin on conversations-Showing that you're a cut above the competition-Flipping the script to have her chasing you-The art of flirtatious teasing-Directly showing interest the right way-How to interpret and deal with a hostile reaction-Discerning interest and disinterest and how to give these subtle cues yourself-Using humorous audacity to create attraction-Using the effect of popularity to make you a hot commodity-Dealing with "cock-blockers": other suitors, jealous friends,...