Summary of Matt Kahn's All for Love - E-book - ePub

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 I began to listen to others without needing to judge or approve of their opinions. I realized that their opinions were shaped by the unprocessed pain they carried within, and not about me or my actions. #2 The first attribute in the space-holding process is encouragement. It is a form of dynamic listening that allows you to support others without needing to always agree with them.
As your consciousness expands, you'll find that you are not just satisfied by mutual agreements with others who think, speak, and act like you. #3 When two people speak without listening to each other, it can spark a battle for control since the differences in your choices and perceptions make you uniquely you. When you are able to empathize with another person's experience rather than only listening on the surface level of agreement, you can sense the depth of your own safety.
#4 The attribute of encouragement is not just about mindlessly placating someone's subjective experiences. It's about consciously engaging for everyone's evolutionary benefit. By encouraging others, you can feel more encouraged yourself.